Negative Office Gossip

      Negative Office Gossips....

"Who gossips with you will gossip of you"

          Unknown quotes

There is a huge difference between a friendly work discussion between  co-workers and negative gossiping.A normal discussion is not usually centered on a particular staff or bringing out the negative aspects of a particular staff or the organization.Office gossips occurs mostly when some staffs feels cheated by the organization,when there is a distrust,staffs feels unwanted,when some staffs have issues with co-workers or the management or some individuals who just enjoy spreading negative gossips around.

Experts in office dynamics usually say that the happiest work places are those in which employees keep overheard conversations or confidential admissions of other workers private and stay out of conversations where others are gossiping.

To become more productive and have focus on ones job descriptions,one must endeavor to avoid negative gossips and unprofessional attitudes.

Ask yourself what is the essence of negative gossips in office?
And you get no significant answer...

Ways of avoiding negative gossiping in the office.

*Don't participate in negative office gossip.

*Change the subject when discussions start heading towards negative gossips.

*Always have vital facts to counter negative gossips.

*Keep your personal and professional lives separate.

*Have positive reasoning to avoid change of mindset from negative gossips.

*Stay focus and disengage from co-workers that likes spreading negative gossips.

*Next time challenge the person that spreads negative gossips to stop.

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Contribution of the day.

Step towards achieving  your visions and missions in your organization.

All staff from the highest level to the lowest level should be aware of these three ingredients towards achieving your visions and missions in your business.

Benefits of Constructive Criticism.

"As much as we thirst for approval,we dread condemnation"
           -Hans Selye

Constructive criticism is the process of offering valid and well-reasoned opinions about the work of others,usually involving both positive & negative comments,in a friendly manner rather than an oppositional one.

The purpose of constructive criticism is to improve the outcome.

The manner in which we deliver criticism matters a lot.When both the giver and receiver approaches issues with a level of professionalism it saves a lot of unwanted resentment at the behavior of the giver and the acceptance on the part the receiver.

The truth is criticism doesn't have to be a dirty word.

Benefits of Constructive Criticism.....

*Achieve greater personal development.

*Help uncover blind spot.

*An assessment or review of one's work.

*Gives new perspective&valuable insight.

*Shows that one who offer the constructive criticism values our work and wants improvement in our work.

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Get inspired....

Get inspired...

Get inspired..... "The only money you can control on how to spend it is the only one in your pocket" - R.A Adebayo. Appreciate your job no matter how small or big you earn from it. The day you start waiting upon people to spend money is the you realize the worth of that job you never value or the little you had to spend,that you thought was weightless. Just be positive in all situations and you will get there. Nafi's Random Musings @ www.nafisustain.com Twitter:nafisustain1 Instagram:nafisustain

Nuggets of Wisdom

            Nuggets of wisdom

"In all the strictness of my upbringing,there was no hint of child Abuse"
         Billy Graham

"Dont stop children from being children"
  

"To bring up a child in the way he should go- travel that way yourself"
         Josh Billings

My thoughts today as schools resume today.

Happy Resumption...

My job as a teacher has given me the privilege and special honor to build lives.l see teaching profession as a divine job,but we can only feel privileged,honoured if the way we think about ourselves is in a positive way because how we think affects our whole being.

When we think richly about ourselves and develop our self -esteem it radiates around us and reflects positively in the lives children we teach.

Who is a great teacher then?

*A teacher is a role model.

*A teacher is a person of knowledge.

*A teacher is a researcher.

*A teacher is a friend/helper.

*A teacher is an educator who impacts knowledge.

*A teacher is a leader who counsel his/her pupils.

It is very important that as teachers we must have lots passion for their job.A teacher is a researcher and must be ready to study and discover new things.Don't stay stagnant and say what will be,will be.Ways of researching is attending seminars,workshops,browsing on the internet,reading books and personal mentorship with people in the know.

Passing through the above ways and more makes one conscious of our diction,attitude,sense of dressing,teaching methods,moods,sense of reasoning.

Every teacher must have their personal goals and objectives on the children they teach.Such as :building up great minds.

                             :building up self confident
                              child.

Watch Words For Teachers As Schools Set To Resume Today....

T-thorough,tolerant and truthful.

E-effective,efficient and encouraging.

A-accessible,approachable and adaptable.

C-courteous,creative and communicative.

H-helpful,hopeful and humorous.

E-excellent,ebullient and erudite.

R-realistic,reliable and reputable.

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Food for thought.