Home sweet home is the image we all want to visualize when we think about our families.The pleasant scenes occurring in our homes makes us want to be with our families and in the home all the time.The making of this remarkable scene in our homes lays more on the shoulder of the woman.To be Frank there is nothing like a perfect home but efforts of the couples makes the home a bliss.
A woman has the power to make the home sweet and loving for the benefit of the family.A woman's mood sets the atmosphere of the daily routine in the home. In general a woman makes the home "home sweet home"It does not matter how big and beautiful the home or how small.What matters is the state of the people therein.
Realization of this makes a woman believes she has a lot of role to play in the family.And that is why a woman needs to understand that our husbands are like our babies ,who needs pampering,attention ,care, being loved and treated like a king ,who needs to be honored ,respected and acknowledged.No reasonable husband is foolish to resist attention shower on them.Most times ,the men are clueless of what to do to make the home sweet and need direction from the woman to lead them on.A woman needs to understand that it does not make her a softy or unwise to channel herself in all directions to achieve a sweet home.Sincerely,this is not easy to attain frequently,judging from the multiple tasks ahead of a woman.
Determination to achieve the role of a home maker makes a woman to learn methods and things to do on how to keep her husband and children longing for the home all the time.Getting involved in activities that makes both the husband and kids happy warms the heart of the family.For instance,there is no harm in watching football match with your husband rather than fighting over who controls the remote once in a while instead of watching your favorite programs,welcoming them with a smile after a hard day job,preparing a delicious meal for the family bonds the family together especially the husband.( like the saying goes"the way to a man's heart is through his stomach"),care for the kids.Our attitude towards our husbands matters a lot in creating a blissful home.
Most importantly , the children always keep tabs of what goes on between mummy and daddy and forms ideas on the mood of the parents.Studies have shown that children grow well in homes where there is a family bond.Likewise,men like to be appreciated and given what they want.Springing up attractive surprises will keep the man running and staying at home.E.g wearing a new look,new recipe,a game,sending romantic text messages,an exotic night or just being homely can bring out the best in the husband and makes the effort of breeding a sweet home less for the woman because it becomes a joint effort.
Being loving,caring,thoughtful and there for the family brings joy and blessings to all we do as a woman.Being a loving and caring wife and mother does not mean we cannot achieve our aims,dreams or duties in life.It is our duty as a mother to produce happy and sound children who will become future leaders and make our husbands happy,feel blessed for the choice of spouse they have chosen and always filled with joy when returning home.When all is well in the home we have better society.lt also reflects and makes all our endeavors easy and a success.
HOME SWEET HOME...
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