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Wednesday, 26 August 2015

LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP!!!!

Don't let the things you want make you forget or lose the good things you have at hand.


At times we search greedily for the wants of life to the extent that we end up losing or forgetting the great things we have in our lives.

When we are too desperate reaching for things  beyond our capabilities and reach  over and over again and yet to come to  reality,we definitely need to be careful not falling a victim of losing it all.

There's no harm in trying out new things and reaching out for challenges in life.But,there are some risk we should never take just out of our impulsiveness.Taking smart and calculated risk and being in control is better than jumping before you look and regretting our actions.Taking time out to think about our decisions saves the disaster our impulsiveness consideration will cost in our lives.

As the wise sayings goes "Look before you leap" and "Take smart and calculated risk"



Thursday, 13 August 2015

I am greatly inspired by this great MAMA!!!

Every time l meet with people with outstanding characters something in them just inspires me to keep moving on and once in a while l stumble into big big fish ...
And today I met with a big fish who is a prestigious educator,a woman of great character and a youngish Mama. l want to get every teachers inspired by  sharing this great mama on my blog.
           
            Get Inspired




Mrs Felicia Olaku is a 69 years old woman who looks like a 45 years old.She is a teacher,mentor,motivational speaker and also into counselling.
She started teaching professional in the year 1971 before she went for further studies.She has G2,NCE,BSC and Master Degree in Adult Education.
She has taught and handled various post in various schools both here in the country and in coutuno.
Her Passion:she total loves children and want the best for them.
Secret to her youngish and smart look:Lots of exercise,driving and eating healthy food.
Her Advice to teachers:Teachers should take their job seriously. Put in their best and never allow the negative impacts of other teachers affect their productivity. She strongly believes God will always elevate those kind of teachers to a greater level.
Mrs Felicia Okaku is a proud owner of a prestigious school named Fountain of Wisdom which is located at Opic Estate Ogun State.

Wednesday, 5 August 2015

What's the new thought? Thinking outside the box

" There is no future in any job. The future lies in the man who holds the job"
     George W.Crane

No amount of the sacrifices made for career development is a waste. When it comes growth and success,the ability to choose a career that will spring up opportunities for development is very important.
It is our choice to choose which benefits us most.
It is either we choose immediate satisfaction or delay our satisfaction and have the opportunity to grow in our various careers.

Sunday, 2 August 2015

Recognising children with attention disorder(ADHD)


Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder  ADHD


It’s normal for children to occasionally forget
their homework, daydream during class, act
without thinking, or get fidgety at the dinner
table. But inattention, impulsivity, and
hyperactivity are also signs of attention deficit
disorder (ADD/ADHD), which can affect your
child’s ability to learn and get along with others.

The first step to addressing the problem is to
recognize the signs and symptoms.
What is ADD / ADHD?
We all know kids who can’t sit still, who never
seem to listen, who don’t follow instructions no
matter how clearly you present them, or who
blurt out inappropriate comments at
inappropriate times. Sometimes these children
are labeled as troublemakers, or criticized for
being lazy and undisciplined. However, they may
have ADD/ADHD.
Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)
is a disorder that appears in early childhood. You
may know it by the name attention deficit
disorder, or ADD. ADD/ADHD makes it difficult
for people to inhibit their spontaneous responses
—responses that can involve everything from
movement to speech to attentiveness.
Is it normal kid behavior or is it ADHD?
The signs and symptoms of ADD/ADHD typically
appear before the age of seven. However, it can
be difficult to distinguish between attention
deficit disorder and normal “kid behavior.”
If you spot just a few signs, or the symptoms
appear only in some situations, it’s probably not
ADD/ADHD. On the other hand, if your child
shows a number of ADD/ADHD signs and
symptoms that are present across all situations
—at home, at school, and at play—it’s time to
take a closer look.
Once you understand the issues your child is
struggling with, such as forgetfulness or
difficulty paying attention in school, you can
work together to find creative solutions and
capitalize on strengths.


There are three types of ADHD:
(1)Hyperactive-impulsive
(2)Inattentive
(3)A combination of both


Symptoms of ADHD
(1)Hyperactivity — Hyperactive behavior is defined as
excessive fidgetiness or talking, difficulty
remaining seated when required to do so,
difficulty playing quietly, and frequent
restlessness or always seeming to be "on the go".
These symptoms are usually seen by the time a
child is four years old and typically increase over
the next three to four years. The symptoms may
peak in severity when the child is seven to eight
years of age, after which they often begin to
decline. By the adolescent years, the hyperactive
symptoms may be less noticeable, although ADHD
can continue to be present.
(2)Impulsivity — Impulsive behavior almost always
occurs with hyperactivity in younger children. It
can cause difficulty waiting turns, blurting out
answers too quickly, disruptive classroom behavior,
intruding or interrupting others' activities,
rejection by classmates, and unintentional injury.
Similar to the hyperactive symptoms, impulsive
symptoms are typically seen by the time a child is
four years old and increase during the next three
to four years to peak in severity when the child is
seven to eight years of age. However, impulsive
symptoms usually continue to be a problem
throughout the life of the individual.
(3)Inattention — Inattention may take many forms,
including forgetfulness, being easily distracted,
losing or misplacing things, disorganization,
underachievement in school, poor follow-through
with assignments or tasks, poor concentration, and
poor attention to detail.
Because of the developmental demands on a child
(eg, needing to pay attention, sit still), these
problems may become more obvious in school when
the child is eight to nine years old, although the
child may have symptoms at a younger age when at
home. Inattention is most likely to persist through
adolescence and potentially into adulthood.
WHERE TO GET MORE INFORMATION — Your child's
healthcare provider is the best source of
information for questions and concerns related to
your child's medical problem.


References
www.uptodate.com
Helpguide.org
www.m.webmd.com

Wednesday, 15 July 2015

Harmonising my thoughts with my lifestyle.

I have heard lots of things of recent(both silly and sensible ones),seen lots of funny characters displayed by people that makes you wonder(what the heck )and felt the impacts of selfless attitudes towards the betterment of humanity(and get whoah )

In the midst of my random musings I learnt to pick from the realities of life,because I have so many thoughts bombarding me from all corners of my brain.At a point I went blank from trying to judge the reasons for my actions or rules and regulations binding a cause.

Harmonising my own personal thoughts with every thoughts triggered by what I have heard people say about life,funny characters displayed by people that makes you wonder "what the heck " or even the selfless attitudes towards the betterment of humanity has formed a complete lifestyle to my personal development.Which formed the decision of maintaining the great characters in me and refining the ones that absolutely needs a complete wash to become new.


Counting the little achievements I have made and hoping to attain many more gives me lot's of joy than feeling bad at myself.

Accepting my role as a mother and an educator makes me buckle up at all my actions because l have young minds mirroring my actions.I don't want to misled the leaders of tomorrow.

Understanding the diversity of people attitudes and the influences on their characters does not put me on an edge when people act funny.

Inspiration from people with selfless contributions towards a better humanity gives me the courage to carry on too.


Disappointments,consequences of decisions made,sacrifices made,happy and sad  moments,congratulatory times,quite and loud moments and lot's more have harmonize my thoughts to form my lifestyle and say to myself and everyone around "that all is well"

Put a smile on your face no matter your condition.....
Fe eyin re
 









Sunday, 12 July 2015

Pica


             PICA


Many young kids put nonfood items in their mouths
at one time or another. They're naturally curious
about their environment and might, for instance,
eat some dirt out of the sandbox.
Kids with pica, however, go beyond this innocent
exploration of their surroundings. Between 10%
and 30% of kids ages of 1 to 6 years have the
eating disorder pica, which is characterized by
persistent and compulsive cravings (lasting 1
month or longer) to eat nonfood items.
About Pica
The word pica comes from the Latin word for
magpie, a bird known for its large and
indiscriminate appetite.
Pica is most common in people with developmental
disabilities, including autism and mental
retardation, and in children between the ages of 2
and 3. Pica also may surface in children who've
had a brain injury affecting their development. It
can also be a problem for some pregnant women,
as well as people with epilepsy.
People with pica frequently crave and consume
nonfood items such as:
dirt
clay
paint chips
plaster
chalk
cornstarch
laundry starch
baking soda
coffee grounds
cigarette ashes
burnt match heads
cigarette butts
feces
ice
glue
hair
buttons
paper
sand
toothpaste
soap

Pica is an eating disorder that can result in serious
health problems, such as lead poisoning and iron-
deficiency anemia .

Signs of Pica
Warning signs that a child may have pica include:
repetitive consumption of nonfood items,
despite efforts to restrict it, for a period of
at least 1 month or longer
the behavior is considered inappropriate for
your child's age or developmental stage (older
than 18 to 24 months)
the behavior is not part of a cultural, ethnic,
or religious practice

Why Do Some People Eat Nonfood Items?

The specific causes of pica are unknown, but
certain conditions and situations can increase a
person's risk:
nutritional deficiencies , such as iron or zinc,
that may trigger specific cravings (however,
the nonfood items craved usually don't supply
the minerals lacking in the person's body)
dieting — people who diet may attempt to
ease hunger by eating nonfood substances to
get a feeling of fullness
malnutrition , especially in underdeveloped
countries, where people with pica most
commonly eat soil or clay
cultural factors — in families, religions, or
groups in which eating nonfood substances is
a learned practice
parental neglect, lack of supervision, or food
deprivation — often seen in children living in
poverty
developmental problems , such as mental
retardation, autism, other developmental
disabilities, or brain abnormalities
mental health conditions , such as obsessive-
compulsive disorder (OCD) and schizophrenia
pregnancy, but it's been suggested that pica
during pregnancy occurs more frequently in
women who exhibited similar practices during
their childhood or before pregnancy or who
have a history of pica in their family
Eating earth substances such as clay or dirt is a
form of pica known as geophagia, which can cause
iron deficiency. One theory to explain geophagia is
that in some cultures, eating clay or dirt may help
relieve nausea (and therefore, morning sickness),
control diarrhea, increase salivation, remove toxins,
and alter odor or taste perception.
Some people claim to enjoy the taste and texture
of dirt or clay or other non-food item, and eat it
as part of a daily habit (much like smoking is a
daily routine for others). Pica may also be a
behavioral response to stress.
Another explanation is that pica is a cultural
feature of certain religious rituals, folk medicine,
and magical beliefs. For example, some people in
various cultures believe that eating dirt will help
them incorporate magical spirits into their bodies.
None of these theories, though, explains every
form of pica. A doctor must treat each case
individually to try to understand what's causing
the condition.

A child who continues to consume nonfood items
may be at risk for serious health problems,
including:
lead poisoning (from eating lead-based paint
chips or dirt contaminated with lead)
constipation or diarrhea (from consuming
indigestible substances like hair, cloth, etc.)
intestinal obstruction or perforation (from
eating objects that could block or injure the
intestines)
dental injury (from eating hard substances
that could harm the teeth)
parasitic and other infections (from eating
dirt, feces, or other infected substances)


Culled from KidsHealth
                      Nemours
 

Sunday, 21 June 2015

My daddy is a great man.


My Daddy is a smart man
He choose a good and pious woman to be our mother.

My Daddy is a responsible man he takes care of my mother and the kids needs.


My Daddy has a big heart
He receives and spends generously on us without regret.


My Daddy is great man
He is always there for us.


My Daddy is strong man
He protects and guards the family.


My Daddy is a great role model
He teaches us lessons of life and
self-discipline.


My Daddy is a nice man
He helps in establishing personal boundaries between mummy and the children.


My Daddy is a friendly man
He taught us how to ride bicycle and many fun games.


My Daddy is a honorable man
He sticks to his words of providing the best legacy for us.


My Daddy is a nice man.
He treats my mother and us with respect.


My Daddy is a kind man
He sees the best in us even when we were not at our best.


My Daddy is a loving man
He cherishes mummy and us.


My Daddy is a thoughtful man
He choose great and meaningful names for us.

My Daddy is a blessed man
He taught us the way of the lord.



This poem is dedicated to my Daddy and all Daddy's in the world.
Happy father's Day.